If you are in a relationship right now,
or are thinking of going into one, there are 3 very important tips you should know
and questions you should ask yourself before you ever get yourself into a relationship.
This could save you from a lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a
love relationship.
(1) Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace orjoy.
Happiness
is a state of mind we choose to have. All of yourhappiness, and all of your
suffering, are created by you andthey do not come rom outside of you, or from others. Beforeyou
go into any type of relationship, ask yourself these questions: "Do I
really, really, really know how to walkaway from disappointment and fear? Will
I be able to find the person that I am now even after I go into this relationship
and begin a new way of life?" In
short, you should not be dependent on your partner on your emotional needs. You
yourself are responsible for your own feelings and creating positive
experiences for both your partner and you whenever you are together.
(2) Love your partner for who they are.
No one in this world is perfect. One day you will find your partner
doing certain things or saying certain things that will hurt you, disappoint
you or anger you. Before you go into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself: "Will
I be able to love my partner for who they are. If I am
unhappy or angry with something they have said or done, will I be able to recognize my unhappiness or
anger as against their speech, actions and behavior, and not against their persons?"
(3) Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my partner?
If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love to
another? This is a mistake most people make when they go into a relationship. They
become over-obsessive with what they can give to their partners and what they
can do for their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you have to
learn to take care of your own needs as well. A true partner or lover is one
who will make sure that you do not become too dependent on them. You are
responsible for your own feelings and your own emotional needs too. You are a beautiful being. So, take care of yourself,
love yourself, treat yourself to all the good things in life too, and do the
same to your partner. Very soon you will find true love always coming your way
without any effort on your part!
As always, if you are encountering problems in your relationship,
try to dissolve all of your problems in love. And you'll be sure you are on
your way to a peaceful and fulfilling relationship!
by:
Cucan Pemo Publishing
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